Listen, I understand you want to share your joy with the rest of the world. I know you want to yell from the highest peaks and shout from the tops of the roofs,, but there are just some things you should never tell other people..
I understand how much you want to share your pain and tell people about your unexpected heartbreak.
However, as much as we humans yearn for companionship and a deep bond with others, there will always be things we shouldn’t share, even with those closest to us.
It’s not so much about keeping secrets as it is about safeguarding yourself and keeping your life private. There’s no need for you to tell us about these six points.
So, instead of sharing them, why don’t you keep them to yourself?
Your Personal Relationships
Involving others in your personal life is a recipe for disaster. You have to admit that we live in a world where confidence is a figment of our imagination. It is difficult to find someone who is trustworthy and honest. So, why would you share your personal information with strangers? It’s best if you keep the detail to yourself.
Every family has its own quarrels, conflicts, and issues to deal with. Every family, on the other hand, has its own way of doing things. It’s a personal matter, whether it’s a love-hate relationship or something else. As a result, you don’t need to include anyone in your family’s company.
Your Financial Status
This is something you can keep to yourself at all times. It’s not a good idea to split your pay with others. It’s impolite to inquire about someone’s earnings as well, and it’s even more impolite to discuss your current savings account balance.
Other people may not be as bless as you and discussing about your financial status may offend other people. Disclosing your financial status might also cause depressions to other people as they might compared themselves to your blessings, so never tell anyone about your financial status. Never tell anyone.
Life Dreams and Goals
According to research, disclosing your aspirations to others and publicly declaring your dreams lowers your chances of achieving them. When you feel proud and happy about sharing your accomplishments with others, the same pride fails to inspire you to pursue your goals.
Then there are other people’s desires, their decision, and so on. This would just add to the depression and make your life unbalanced.
Your Material Belongings
Others can misinterpret your boasting about your possessions. Even if you’re sharing them with good intentions, others might misunderstand what you’re saying.
Don’t brag about your possessions. There are some people who would give anything to have what you have. Some people do not even have access to clean water to drink. They don’t even have food for some of them.
Kindness is urgently needed in this country. But, if you’re just doing it to make people like you, please stop. If you want to be kind and support others, do so because you want to, not because you need society’s approval. Never tell anyone if you don’t want to be misjudge anyway.
Keep in mind that there are those who are eager to cause you harm. Don’t extend a free invitation to them. Set those boundaries around yourself to protect yourself. Your investments are a personal matter for you.
With an easy click of the finger nowadays through social media, it is very tempting to share as much information as you want to the other people, to the universe rather. But being a wiser young adult there are things we should never tell to other people. Keeping things in private are more for the mature people